This is the first part of an extremely insightful and helpful 5-Part Interview Series with Sue Heintze.

Sue Heintze at 41 and 7 Weeks Pregnant
Why Sue? …because many of my subscribers (you) have asked to hear from “a woman who has figured out how to maintain a beautiful level of fitness while dealing the everyday challenges of today’s modern woman – SUCH AS: spouse, kids, job, housework, extended family, etc….”
So, in my efforts to always give you what you want – and then some – I’ve created an interview which had to be broken down into 5 parts, in order to be answered with clarity and strength. Without further delay – here is Part 1:
QUESTION for Sue: “What adjustments did you have to make going from single/no kids—to married with child, etc… – both psychologically and logistically/physically?”
Sue’s ANSWER:
Do you ever wish there were more than 24 hours in the day?
Do you imagine how much you’d accomplish if you didn’t have to sleep? It sure can be a difficult thing to manage a home, a career, a relationship, be a mother, a daughter, a wife and a domestic goddess all rolled in to one. Add getting in shape to all that and things can seem pretty impossible.
As a new mum at the ripe old age of 41, this was a new challenge for me late last year. Prior to this I was an independent woman who ran my company business from home and trained and slept whenever I felt like it. I used to compete in figure competitions, so I was very busy and I worked hard, but my husband and I could pretty much do what we wanted, when we wanted.
Now, we have a beautiful addition to our family and I love my 6 month old daughter with a love that I never knew existed – but that luxurious world of independence that once existed has been totally crushed!
I was prepared for it as much as I could be.
I’d heard stories from other women about how they lost their pre pregnancy shape and never regained it, and that they never had a moment to themselves when the kids came along. I admit – I was a little bit scared.
I’d had my fair share of body image issues and disordered eating patterns in the past and I definitely didn’t want to revisit those topics. Funnily enough, childbirth didn’t worry me (although in hindsight it should have!), but losing ‘my life’ and my body as I knew them were my major concerns.
I actually talked to my husband at length about my concerns prior to getting pregnant. I had a career, one that paid our mortgage, so I was never going to be able to be a ‘full time mum’. Training was part of my life – it’s what I do, I don’t just talk the talk, I definitely practise what I preach and I was worried I wouldn’t be able to continue that.
My husband was great, and he was adamant that he intended to share the child rearing responsibilities.
I’ve never been a great sleeper, so this was my biggest worry initially. I had no idea how I was going to be able to look after a newborn and get enough sleep to enable me to run my business – let alone get back in shape! I’d heard that if you managed to actually have a shower before lunchtime you were doing well! Crikey!
About 8 weeks before the birth, I prioritized.
My baby and my health were my number one priority.
Even though I’d put on 16kg (35lb) I wasn’t too concerned about it but I knew that even if I didn’t have time for exercise yet, there was definitely something I could do to start my way back to great shape. So, this was my simple list of priorities after Kyah was born:
1. Get enough sleep so I could cope with the new challenges that would come my way
2. Get back to the nutrition principles that I know get me lean and keep me lean
3. Walk outdoors with my baby, when possible
Pretty simple really!
Prior to the birth I made sure that I had delegated as much of my business tasks as possible to my wonderful Programs Manager Kristin, though being a Managing Director of your own company means you will never be able to fully delegate everything. I talked to my husband about the need for some time each week to keep up with the basics.
So basically I had a plan for my business after the birth.
I also decided that exercise was not a priority at this early stage and that I wouldn’t beat myself up if I wasn’t able to exercise regularly (or at all). Consequently, I think all I managed was a couple of walks and one gym session in the first 8 weeks.
I did however concentrate on eating good food, and found that because of my previous fitness lifestyle, that the weight came off easily. Within 10 weeks I was only 2lb off my pre conception weight. I highly recommend being in shape prior to conceiving ladies!
The first 3-4 months of being a new mum was very challenging. I still had a very busy business to run, and a household to tend to, as well as a beautiful little girl who was diagnosed with reflux at 2 weeks old. I also had to go back to hospital for surgery for retained placenta 2 weeks after Kyah’s birth – I spent 2 more nights in hospital.
My husband and I played a bit of tag which allowed us both to get enough sleep to deal with everything else we had going on. I wouldn’t have been able to manage without my husband who shared the responsibility of night feeds, bottle washing and general household duties.
So, you could say we didn’t have a smooth start to parenthood. But, this still didn’t defeat me. I’ll reveal why and how in the next few parts of this series.
In wrapping up part 1 of this interview series, I offer a simple word of advice for all mum’s – please, do not put too much pressure on yourself – and keep reminding yourself; you do an amazing job, every single day and; it is really important you be kind to yourself.
Perfection often doesn’t look or feel perfect, but it can still be there. And if you open your mind a bit, you may realize bits and pieces of perfection throughout your fully-loaded, busy day.
– Sue Heintze
To see Sue’s amazing Before & After story – just click either link below; And then click ‘About’ in the upper right hand corner of her website:
Ideal Body Blueprint for Women
Advanced Fat-Loss Blueprint
And stay tuned for Parts 2, 3, 4, and 5 – You will not want to miss them.
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